Below you will find a list of my Stress Busting Tips. You can do some of them almost immediately, others may need a little planning. The rules are simple, read through the list and whatever resonates with you – just do it! It doesn’t have to take too long to have great effects.
Stress is a personal thing; we all feel it in different ways. That’s why someone may stress out about a broken fingernail and others can cope with flying a fighter jet without raising their heartbeat.
Stress is the way the body responds to mental or physical demand. Stressors can be internal and/or external. Not all stress is bad, though in today’s world it’s good to know some techniques to reduce the stress we believe we feel.
I would even argue that stress doesn’t exist! All you have to do to deal with stress is change your mindset. Get those dopamine hormones going by focusing on the good in life. Simple, easy day-by-day steps are the best. You may not be able to change the circumstances you find yourself in, but you can sure change the way you deal with what life throws at you.
Stress Busting Tips
Below are a series of ideas I have created to take the ‘stress’ out of deciding what actions to take. We are all individuals, and you will probably have tried some of them already; others will be new to you. It’s all about giving something a go. Preferably something you don’t do very often. The newer the activity, the more benefit you will have. If you can take others along on the ride with you, all the better!
Take, for example, lighting a candle. You may think about doing it and then life gets in the way. The actual act of stopping and just watching a candle flame can be calming in itself. Be sure to make the effort and then take notice of the changes it causes.
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100 Stress Busting Tips
- Go for a long walk
- Have a good cry
- Pull funny faces
- Scream loudly
- Laugh
- Sigh deeply
- Hug a tree
- Do the progressive relax exercise
- Put your feet in the air (against a wall helps!)
- Exercise: Run, Swim, Dance or whatever gets your heart rate up
- Brush your hair at least a 100 times
- Do a silly walk or two, or three!
- Pull your shoulders back and walk tall
- Go beach combing
- Learn Tai Chi/Chi Kung
- Yoga. Any yoga move will do!
- Meditate the easy way
- Do nothing. I mean nothing!
- Breathe deeply
- Sunbathe
- Have a Mini-Me-Moment
- Stretch like a cat
- Sing loudly (yes we know you can’t sing, in which case just sing louder!)
- Get some sleep
- Take a nap
Bop!
- Bop to your favourite music (Make a Deezer playlist)
- Turn on some Mozart
- Listen to someone properly
- Watch a funny video
- Read a book
- Write down 3 things you are grateful for
- Write the stress down
- Check the Midlife 10 Commandments
- Give someone a gift
- Smile at a complete stranger
- Chant ho’oponopono
- Apologise to someone
- Do something nice for someone else
- Focus on the planet
- Forgive someone
- Ring your best friend
- Tell someone you love them
- Ask for a hug
- Learn something new
- Think outside the box
- Make This Your Best Day Ever
- Make something with your hands
- Step out of your comfort zones
- Take up knitting
- Get a massage
Baboon Time
- Have some baboon time
- Get acupuncture
- Kiss someone (not just a peck on the cheek!)
- Have sex
- Have an orgasm – or fake it!
- Close your email box
- Turn off social media
- Smudge your home
- Light a candle
- Smell your favourite flower or pine or vanilla
- Use essential oils
- Put a piece of lavender behind your ear
- Polish your shoes
- Clean the windows
- Go away for a mini break
- Take a warm bath
- Tidy a drawer
- Clean your home
- Declutter
- Cuddle your dog
- Take your pet to work
- Ditch negativity and worry
- Swear – but not these words
- Look at old photos
- Peel an orange and eat it slowly
Dark Chocolate
- Eat dark chocolate
- Eat an avocado
- Make a bowl of oatmeal
- Drink green tea
- Drink black tea
- Sip a Hot chocolate
- Paint something
- Draw and/or Colour
- Don’t be perfect
- Tear up newspaper into tiny pieces
- Hit a punch bag
- Count to 100, slowly
- Tame your inner critic
- Say No/Yes
- Express what you feel
- Pause for 5 minutes and listen to your mind
- Do a life Reboot
- Remove toxic chemicals
- Buy a plant (and keep watering it!)
- Watch the clouds
- Give up alcohol
- Be Sensibly Selfish
- Go on a Retreat
- Love yourself – Mirror exercise
- Talk to Kay
I hope you found this post useful. Which Stress Busting Tip worked for you? What was your favourite activity? Do you have any favourite ways to Stress Bust that have not been included here? Why not use the comment box below and help others with their Stress Busting. Be sure to share the post with your friends and leave me a comment and let me know how you get on! If you need help I am here for you. Contact me HERE.